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448: Why Every GM Needs a Strong Exit Plan And a Stronger People Plan w/ David Sweet, CCM
David Sweet’s journey from the luxury hotel world to the private club space is anything but typical—but his impact at Boca Woods shows what’s possible when a leader aligns people, purpose, and values.
In this episode, David shares how Boca Woods has evolved by investing deeply in culture, communication, and brand—from the inside out. From forming a marketing dream team to reshaping how members engage with the club, this is a masterclass in modern leadership.
We cover:
How Boca Woods earned a nomination as a Distinguished Club of the World
The importance of clarity in values—and how to make them live in your operations
How storytelling (internally and externally) has transformed engagement
Building a healthy internal culture that supports mental health and belonging
The value of mentorship—and how one mentor helped him negotiate a GM role on his terms
Why people and culture aren’t just “nice to have”—they’re your competitive edge
This one is for anyone who believes clubs are about more than just amenities—they’re about people.
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Hey everybody, welcome to the Private Club Radio Show, where we give you the scoop on all things private golf and country clubs, from mastering leadership and management, food and beverage excellence, member engagement secrets, board governance and everything in between, all while keeping it fun and light. Whether you're a club veteran just getting your feet wet or somewhere in the middle, you are in the right place. I'm your host, denny Corby. Welcome to the show. This episode is exactly what I needed, because today I am joined by a guy who's not just a killer club leader but one of the kindest, most grounded humans I've had the pleasure of laughing with.
Speaker 1:Here on Private Club Radio we have David Sweet, ccm General Manager and COO of Boca Woods Country Club in Boca Raton, florida. David's had a wild ride from executive steward at the Ritz-Carlton in New England and Boston to managing TGI Fridays, to transforming a private club in a way that would make even the most skeptical board members cry tears of operational joy. We talk about everything from personal branding and bourbon to board negotiations and balance sheets. You'll hear how man's plan and God laugh isn't just his favorite quote but kind of the GPS for his entire journey. We get into the evolution of club culture building trust through consistency, creating a team that breathes the brand, and why every GM should have an exit strategy and also maybe a good bottle of Whistlepig Boss Hog. David shares how Boca Woods has grown. We get into leadership lessons, mentorship, mental health and, yep, even how he proposed to his now wife on a rooftop, with a surprise dinner menu courtesy of a Ritz-Carlton wedding downstairs. No big deal. This episode is warm, smart, hilarious and full of moments that make you rethink how you show up as a leader, teammate and human. I am super stoked for it. Before we dive in though, quick thanks to some of our show partners. We have our friends Golf Life, navigators, members, first Kennis Member, vetting Concert Golf Partners, as well as myself.
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Speaker 1:If you want to learn more, head on over to privateclubradiocom slash management in motion or privateclubradiocom slash mim M-I-M for management in motion. It's going to be so much fun. Seats and registration is filling up quick. We are only limited to 50 people and I would love to see you there. Enough about all of that, though. Let's get to the episode. Private Club Radio listeners. Let's get to the episode. Private club radio listeners. Let's welcome to the show. David sweet. Had you know, quite a killer journey from you know the ritz carlton to boca woods uh, that's very true do you ever just like, think, like, how did I end up here?
Speaker 2:definitely reflect on that once in a while. Yes, it's, uh, it's pretty cool. It is not at all where we expect it to be, but I'm so I we feel blessed that this is where we are.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, and I mean your quote says it best man plans and God laughs, yeah for sure.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that about sums, up life.
Speaker 1:Yeah, do you have like a memory or anything or a moment that like embodied that quote for you?
Speaker 2:Yeah, absolutely memory or anything or a moment that like embodied that quote for you? Yeah, absolutely. I mean, I come out of college gung-ho, I did really, really well in school and I I got this vision of being a corporate executive for hotels, and then the great recession hits and I got laid off in, I want to say, 2008. Like boom, how does this happen? My departments are doing some of the best sales in the entire hotel, but people are making business decisions at that time, and so it really kind of changed the way that I looked at the world.
Speaker 2:And yeah, there it is man plans and god laughs and and then over time the fmv director who I was working with back then. He ends up as an agm down here in florida at a country club and I get this crazy phone call to come join the team, kind of again. Laugh like this is not my plan yeah, and then from from new.
Speaker 1:It's funny because we overlapped. Like we must have met some of the same places in in boston, which is even funnier. Uh, there's been a couple other people I've like chatted with. It's like we were in the sick. That's so cool. Like what are the? It almost makes you think like how many times, like you know, we were probably in like the same ball or just somewhere, or like walk past each other on the street and just had like no, no, like what's the word? Uh, you know no idea who, who we were, um no clue that we would connect what.
Speaker 2:What is it like 20 years?
Speaker 1:later.
Speaker 2:Okay, maybe not that yeah or to say that no, no oh yeah, oh, that hurt.
Speaker 1:That actually really doesn't hurt that. I don't like that at all I know I, I know, and now you've been at Boca Woods for a while now and I think from our chat and just from reading and everything, it's clear a lot has evolved. How would you describe the journey the club's been on?
Speaker 2:I think it's been an incredible journey at Boca Woods. It's been an incredible journey at Boca Woods and when I characterize it and kind of look at everything that has gone on, I think that this club over the last 10 years has really leaned in to the education provided by the club managers association and has really done the work that club benchmarking talks about and realized what needed to happen for the club to be something that's viable and that people look forward to in the future. So in the last 10 years, we've taken a property that Ray Cronin at Club Benchmarking would describe as not reinvesting, not doing the things to maintain the balance sheet, but cash flush and then helping members to understand how important it is to reinvest in their environment and building, I guess, relationships of trust to be able to pass the votes that needed to happen. And, yeah, it's been an incredible journey to see where we are now. We were recently tapped a nomination for Distinguished Clubs of the world and super humbling Like, yeah, super humbling.
Speaker 2:I shared with you a story when we were talking before I came to hookah woods in 2016, touring the property to consider working here, and I go home to my wife and I said, jamie, there's no way I can't do this. This club isn't in alignment with what we believe in. It's not my brand. And she says to me Dave, think about it for a minute, does it have potential? And so I'm reflecting on everything.
Speaker 2:And the people here were wonderful, just genuine human beings the membership, the staff, everybody, really really good people. And then, when you did the research and actually looked in on the balance sheet, they had the resources. They just the team in the membership wasn't agreeing on what needed to happen to get it to the next level. And so another moment where man plans and God laughs. She kind of helps me to refocus my energy and direction and, instead of trying to align with all the brands that I believe match who I am, here's an opportunity to take something from where it is or where it was and help it to realize its potential. I think that's incredible.
Speaker 2:Very very cool.
Speaker 1:Let's dive in about personal brand. Have you always been like a personal brand person and like a value person, or has that maybe grown over time? Just because I've talked with so many people and everyone has their own journey of how they got to where they're at. And some people, you know it's maybe something happened and they're like oh, like a light bulb clicks, like oh, I have to take this more seriously. So like how, how has that been for you on that journey of like a personal brand?
Speaker 2:So I think if you take the word personal brand and match it with the word reputation, the answer is yes. I've always been very, very concerned about my reputation and the impact that I leave on others. But when you think of all the nuances of quote branding, I think personal brand is really for me taken on a higher level, meaning in the last, I'd say, 15 years, and again I get it, I'm dating myself. But if you look at where we were as a society in the States and like, let's look at like the 90s, unemployment rate is like 10%. When you look at the Bureau of Labor Statistics you can see it. So basically translate that to the job that you're looking for.
Speaker 2:There are probably 10 other people, nine to 10 other people looking for the exact same job. So you don't really have the time or the energy to think about who you are, what your values are. You're pounding the streets trying to get the job because you've got bills to take care of, you've got responsibilities. Yeah, I don't think that shifts for society until much more recently, when they're historically low unemployment rates and all of a sudden, for everybody looking for a job, there are all these jobs available. Well, now people can be more thoughtful. They can think to that who am I as a person and what lines up with that? What are the brands, what are the right places that line up with that? So I think it's an evolution. I was always concerned with reputation, understanding values and brand. I think it's a luxury that where we are in society today affords all of us.
Speaker 1:So how do you bring because we're talking about the personal branding how do you bring that to life? What are those steps? What do you do to bring a personal brand to life? What does that entail? How does that work?
Speaker 2:So the concept that we're talking about is personal branding and then in today's world, how people want the places they work to align with their personal brands in the way that they. The way that that happens is a group, company, a club, puts a lot of time and energy into establishing what their values are, in sharing those values and bringing those values to life. So I think the hard part about that is that sometimes the concept of values sound really good to people and they think that it's a match for them, but it doesn't truly resonate and fit who they are. So in my mind, you can't bring a brand to life until you've got the right people on the bus. It's all about surrounding yourself with people that you love and that you trust and investing in those people, in helping those people to understand what's important to you. And that's what brings a company's brand to life is when everybody's kind of speaking the same language, right, and believing in the words that they're speaking. To me, that's when a brand really comes to life and once it's alive. Now it's about how you tell the story, and for us, we've been blessed to put together a really good membership and marketing team.
Speaker 2:Greg Friedlander is our member engagement director Cool kind of side story. We rebranded the concept of the membership role completely and it is totally focused on connecting with people and helping people connect with the experiences they want out of the club. So advocacy is a huge part of it, understanding the data of where people are actually participating huge part of it. And then she works that with our communications director, nihala Hillhouse, and our content creator, michael McMinn, and together that team helps people on the outside understand our brand through content. So there's some really cool videos out there. There's some really cool stories. There's a new concept that Michael piloted called the faces of character, character being our, our, our shared values, our acronym Um in me.
Speaker 2:That's how, once the brand is truly alive and people are breathing it and believe in it, that's how you share that brand is is to bring those stories to life for people on the outside, and then they can kind of look at that and say is this something I want to be a part of or does it not fit who I am? Yeah, and the reality is that's okay. Not every brand is for every person. When people spend the time and the energy to identify the right brand they're, they're probably entering into something that's more meaningful for them, and when people spend a lot of time and energy trying to become the brand they think they want to be a part of in today's market, I don't think that that's the right use of people's time.
Speaker 1:And then do you also do the same for internal communications and the content and stuff like that too. So you have your front facing. But I'm assuming I'm a big, big, big assumption I'm assuming then you're also creating really good content just for internal, that stuff that the outside never is going to see also.
Speaker 2:Yeah, a hundred percent. So that team is super engaged with creating newsletters and retelling stories, and we have we love the concept of FOMO, right? Somebody has the fear of missing out, and so we will regenerate what happened at an event and resell that story to people so they can look at what they missed out on and want to be a part of it next time.
Speaker 2:And yeah, I think that internal branding that you're talking about relates to something that we touched on earlier. When you're in sort of transition management or change management, helping people identify what that path looks like and where you're headed, that's a huge responsibility of branding. When your brand is helping to tell that story and drive it home for people, that gives people the runway to make the right decisions for themselves. Is this a brand I identify with as a member? Do I want to be on this journey with this club? And if the answer is no, that's okay. But how do we continue to extend grace and help that person to fulfill the next steps in their lives in a way that's meaningful and doesn't feel like they're being just left out in the cold right?
Speaker 2:yeah we're a really unique club in that every member votes for the annual operating budget. So think about that for a second. If the citizens of the united states could vote on the federal budget, I've got a feeling we wouldn't have highways, we just wouldn't have them. So the need, the need to communicate and help people understand where we're going is higher than it's. It's a very high threshold that that we have to reach for people to understand and to make the right decisions I love that.
Speaker 1:And to go back a moment to when you were considering the position at Boca, you were almost not going to take it at Boca Woods. You almost were going to take it, but then didn't they ask to talk to your wife.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, that's a cool story, so that's actually that's a really cool story. So that's, that's actually not Boca Woods.
Speaker 1:That takes us back.
Speaker 2:My bad, my bad, so I love this, though this is. This is funny, so again, never thought country clubs were in my future. Um, I came from a small town in upstate New York. The country club was like a big room on a golf course. I always saw myself as corporate hotels, resorts, and I come down to Woodfield actually was the club, and I'm touring this club and it's gorgeous.
Speaker 2:I'm like oh my gosh, this is a resort. And I get all excited and I go home and then Jamie and I we talk ourselves out of it. We're like we're a two income family. We've got to move 1200 miles. We don't know where we're going to live. We don't. It's going to take months to find a job. We can't make this work and so I declined.
Speaker 2:And Eben, who's still the GM at Woodfield today, great, great guy Eben calls me up the next morning. He says so, I heard you turn us down. He says can I talk to your wife? And rose me I'm coming out of corporate. That's not a common thing in the corporate environment in 2010 or 12 when we're making this consideration. But I say, yeah, I guess. So I hand her the phone and she's pacing all over the house, she's walking the stairs, they're laughing. I'm like what is going on?
Speaker 2:An hour and a half goes by and she finally hangs up the phone. I go Jamieie, what just happened in? We're in new england, so some of the language might be a little off color and she responds and she goes. I don't know what the f that was, but I have a job at the country club across the street from your club, and we both start in october. So evan, through all of his relationships, knew he could land her a job immediately, didn't even ask them first and we end up making this huge plunge because they're willing to take the risk on us. It gets to the point where we're being foolish if we're not willing to reciprocate yeah and I think that is one of the key differences between clubs and corporate.
Speaker 2:Clubs have heart and when club managers are are, would they believe in something that they'll work really hard to help make those things happen.
Speaker 1:And I think club managers in today's world really believe in their people and they work really hard to bend heaven and earth to help their people achieve what they need to achieve to be successful yeah, yeah, is there something that's that you're proud of that might not show up on like a spreadsheet, because you know we were talking about like the, the numbers and stuff at, at, uh, at boca, but uh, is there something maybe that might not show up on the spreadsheet, but you feel it every day on property.
Speaker 2:Yeah, for sure. We try to incorporate it in our brand with a lot of the videography and stuff that we do, but it's the feeling that you get when you're interacting with the members and the staff here. Boca Raton has a tough name, right. It's known to be a very pretentious area in the country, but our little slice of heaven over here in West Boca is very unpretentious and you could be standing next to somebody whose net worth is just absolutely wild, but you'd have no idea, because they're down to earth and they treat you like people and they want to be treated just like another person. And that's something that is truly special about this club that I think we fight really hard to preserve, and the way that we fight those battles are through our vision, our mission and through some of our goals and things.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and have you felt that shift to the positive since you've started Like, has there been like a bigger shift in that direction, shift to the positive, since you've?
Speaker 2:started Like. Has there been like a bigger shift in that direction? Yeah, I mean, I would say that unpretentiousness was something that always made Bocowood special, I think how it's defined, though, has been shifted over time right. Unpretentious was a part of that story of deferred maintenance, where maybe things were kept up but not upkept, not lifted when it comes to facilities. So we've done a really good job of elevating facilities but at the same time continuing to drive that unpretentiousness through the relationships. And so, over time, boards have adopted all sorts of fun employee engagement activities. We do an event where members actually come down the golf course maintenance and we set up a huge barbecue and things and the members do a role reversal and they'll serve all the golf course maintenance staff and do some really fun things like that.
Speaker 2:And so those little things are happening all over the place and it's not just a board initiative right. All the membership leans into it. People look forward to those things. They get really excited about those things.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah. Now you've, you've, you've done a lot of you know from the corporate side. But all hospitality, was there something or anything that you picked up in your early days that still helps you or that that you keep, keep with now?
Speaker 2:Yeah, a hundred percent. I think that if I were to look at clubs 10 years ago and that's my barometer I guess I joined clubs 12 years ago. But if I were to look at clubs 10 years ago, I think that there were a lot of differences around the way clubs were run. Evan was really passionate about the concept of bringing some corporate thought processes and how we manage business in the corporate world to clubs, and I think I've brought some of that here to Boca Woods.
Speaker 2:But more importantly and that is, I think, the foundations that I took from Ritz-Carlton here at Boca Woods we have a credo card very similar to what you might have seen at Ritz-Carlton back in the day, and the credo card outlines our vision, our mission, our shared values, and when I say shared, these aren't the values of just the team, they're the values that we also share with the membership, because that's what makes the place special is that we share a set of values. There's a list of guiding principles that helps us in decision-making, and so those are things that came to life for me through Ritz-Carlton. Every day, whether we were working as a team in the stewarding department in DISH or whether it was the senior leadership meetings every day started out the same way. It started out with that credo card in hand and just a reflection on what the vision was for the company and what we were doing that day that helped to roll up to that greater process.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and what you managed? Like 200 grand worth of China.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's right Yep.
Speaker 1:That's a big responsibility.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it was fun. I had a team of like 24. We did the overnight cleaning for the place. That Ritz-Carlton property was special. There was a rooftop that was a wedding venue that had an independent sort of kitchen up there, and then we had the main events and activities took place on the fourth floor. It was just cool. It was really, really, it was special was that the ritz in boston? Yeah, on the corner of arlington and newberry street beautiful, beautiful funny story.
Speaker 2:I was the I. I grew into the executive steward role. From a stewarding supervisor I went to the fmb director. I'm like, hey, I, uh, I've got this woman who I want to ask to marry me, but you're aware of my financial situation. I don't have a ton of resources. And he was so sweet, robert Recterman. He's a GM now a different company, but great, great guy. He asked the catering team to work with me and so there was a wedding going on on the fourth floor and the girls in catering put little candles out onto the rooftop deck and put a little sweetheart table in the corner and they gave us the same menu that the wedding was serving downstairs for for this engagement dinner. She had no clue it was coming.
Speaker 1:It was magical, it was magical yeah, yeah yeah, hospitality is special yeah, that's cool, that's really cool.
Speaker 2:You must have felt like a baller that night, I mean honestly I she probably did I I was just super grateful and in the back of my mind is the sweat dripping down. You know I'm thinking to myself what am I gonna?
Speaker 1:owe everybody for this. Like, how am I gonna make?
Speaker 2:up for what these people have done, because it was just. It was super heartfelt. There were some really good people that put a lot of energy into making it special yeah, was there any any shifts at the club?
Speaker 1:that, uh, that required a lot of, like, finesse and patience, maybe.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, there are multiple and I think that takes place in every club. One of the key things going on right now, I think, in the industry as a whole, is this concept of regeneration. You've got original members at many of these clubs who are sort of attritioning out. Right, they're either aging out, really dying off some um, choosing to sell off before that happens, and so you've got this new population, younger generations, coming in. So all of a sudden, as the club regenerates which is great because it's whole right we have the membership base to be successful. But you've got members in different generations that are all maybe volleying for the same membership dollars, for different experiences that they're looking for.
Speaker 1:So I think navigating that, for both for the membership and for the management, it's it's challenging yeah, yeah, how have you and it's probably more so in Florida than a lot of other places yeah, maybe, maybe Good for you, but no, yeah, definitely a lot more. I'm just saying because I think the concentration in Florida, but what have you done to help with that, that regeneration?
Speaker 2:I think just being open and honest about what we're facing has helped. Right in the beginning people didn't realize what was happening. They just felt like they maybe they were losing a piece of what they were used to, because it's the same dues dollars to now help more people. So we spent a lot of time in energy building a communication strategy that could help sort of bring people along with the story and help them understand, and that communication strategy included things like some focus group meetings or some by invitation sessions. We called it. The president at the time was named Joanne, so it was a cup of Joe with Dave and Joe, and so we would sit down and we would just tell them hey, these are some of the things that we're up against. Is we're planning next year's budget? Um, you know, we did some open invites.
Speaker 2:Um, in more recent administrations, president has held um discussions with the membership and it's open invite. People can come in and just share what's on their mind. We use those platforms to also share. Hey, this is where we are and we know that what you're paying is important to you and we also know that value is defined by what you're getting. But there are all these different people now with different needs that are looking for value, and here's the way that we believe is right to approach this. I think as long as it hits the logic test, people tend to get behind it.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, really, we're all just in sales, it's all just sellable. No, but I think, because sometimes change is more about unlearning than learning.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 1:Is there anything that you or your team had to maybe unlearn to move forward?
Speaker 2:No, when I got here in 2016, the operations weren't known for consistency. They weren't very smooth and at the same time, looking at it, there were certain resources being denied the operations team. That would have maybe created that consistency. So the membership had learned we don't have budget increases more than 3%. That was their expectation and the reality of. I guess the psychology behind a dues increase is that it really matters, like when you're leading up to it, but after it happens it's yesterday's news and people forget about it. What they don't forget about is the fact that the dinner I had tonight was wonderful, but three days later I had dinner and it was a mess.
Speaker 2:So if you can help people understand the resources that you need to do the job that you believe they want you to do, and then you can deliver on those expectations, that's how trust is built. So we had to unlearn certain things that people were taking for granted. Help them understand the things that historically, we've never done. Well, it's within our abilities. We just need to be resourced correctly to do it. And new guy walking in can't say that. So I come in and I'm busting tables and I'm, you know, learning everybody's names and developing the street credit to be able to tell that story later down the line.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah. Have you had any mentors or you know, guiding voices, so to speak, that shape you and what you've done?
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah. So I'm blessed, I was. I was blessed to be aligned with eban malloy, who's a gm at woodfield. That was phenomenal. Uh, former gm at woodfield who's now the coo at hunter's run. Larry sabitas has been a wonderful mentor for me. Mike mccarthy, um, has been a phenomenal mentor. He's the gm and ceo over at addison. In fact, when I was ready to take the step from AGM to GM, mike helped me negotiate my package with the board. He was amazing, quick, kind of side step story, side quest. Love it, okay, cool.
Speaker 2:So they present me with this offer and I, you know, I want to be grateful and I just I thank them and I say I need some time to think about it. You know, looking at it in the reality is it is not representative of what this job should be worth or even what an entry level GM should be making. So I reach out to Mike and we have some conversations and he says Dave, maybe, I don't know send your president over here, I'll feed him the lunch, we'll have some conversation. So my president comes back with the past president and she says well, that was eyeopening. I said I don't understand. What do you mean? She says well, he basically told me that he could rip you out of the seat that you're in today and have you be the AGM somewhere else, making twice what we offer you.
Speaker 2:I said, oh wow, I can see how that. I can see how that that might, yeah, but it trends. So he delivered in a way that just showed genuine love and trust and that stimulated some really good conversations, and so probably took three months for us to get to the place where I was signing on the dotted line, but he helped to create this environment of receptiveness where they were ready to to think through realizing maybe all my expertise in what I've done through my life doesn't necessarily prepare, prepare me to be the expert in this particular negotiation that that that was just amazing. Having a mentor step into that kind of role, that that was huge.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah. Were there any big? Were there any other big takeaways from from that negotiation, from that?
Speaker 2:Yeah, for sure, for sure. Yeah. One thing that both Mike and Larry will tell you and I preach this to all the guys coming up who I work with and talk to is that one of the most important things that you do in your labor negotiations is negotiate a really strong exit strategy, and I get that sounds dark, but the reality of the industry that we're in is that our careers are dependent upon a political process right. A popular vote determines who the next board seats are, and the board seats determine whether or not what you believe is performance is or is not considered performance. So an exit strategy might look like. If you were to be separated without cause, how many months of severance pay would you be entitled to, based on your years of service? In preparing that exit strategy is what causes a board to come in, and, let's face it, new board seats coming in have been sitting on the outside of the tent the entire time. They have no real clue what's going on.
Speaker 2:They might be really great people, right, but their impression of what is or is not happening is not based in reality. It's based in the rumors that are circulating around the club. So when you've created a really strong exit strategy, you cause them all to pause really, really hard before making what I would consider a very dumb decision.
Speaker 1:That might be the highlight of the episode there, that little last three minutes. Yeah, it's important, yeah, very.
Speaker 2:And if you think about it, what do they want from you? The board that's hiring you? They want you to be a strong, independent leader. They want you to lead with your. What do they want from you, the board that's hiring you? They want you to be a strong, independent leader. They want you to lead with your heart and they want you to be honest with them. But if they've prepared your labor agreement in a way that you're very worried about all these outside influences, well now your instinct as a father, as a husband, as a caregiver, your instinct might be to protect all those who you're responsible for outside of the organization, when your instincts should be focused on protecting all those within the organization. And as long as the people who are outside of the organization that you care for are protected through your agreement, then you can focus on the people who are who you're responsible for within the organization.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I'm sure it saves both parties, both sides also. Yeah, so no one you know with a hothead or something just goes in from the GM or the board. You know it saves both sides from, I guess, maybe blowing the top off. It has a nice little cushion there, so to speak.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you think about it. There's a great guy and I won't share his name, but he shared with me a story. He was looking for a job and the GM who he was applying with reached out to his former GM and he shared with me what the former GM said was listen, sometimes bad things happen to good people. In the reality of the club space that we choose to to operate in and that we love and that we believe in, that can happen if the politics are permitted to kind of go on their own way, unfettered. So it's our responsibility to put the oxygen mask on ourselves first so we can think about everybody else who are responsible for it, and that's both members, that's future boards and that's staff.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah. Yeah, I think we touched on it a little bit. We can probably think of some other stuff, but what do you think the next generation of club leadership needs to be ready for, or that like we're just not talking about enough?
Speaker 2:There are two things that I think we're just starting to touch on, and one of them is mental health, and I am so proud of what happened at this last year's World Conference. Joe Mendes should be applauded. Everybody with CMA who leaned into that should be applauded. The world that we're coming out of, the Generation Xers, were kind of taught not to look in on themselves, and I still believe that a huge part of that was the unemployment rate. They didn't have the time or they couldn't afford the luxury of looking in on themselves, and I still believe that a huge part of that was the unemployment rate. They didn't have the time or they couldn't afford the luxury of looking in on themselves. But the reality of the luxury of options today is that awareness of mental health comes to the forefront. If we're not providing the tools and the resources for our team to have the right experiences both at work and maybe outside of work, get the support that they need, then it's tough to believe that they're going to stick around and be a part of what we're doing.
Speaker 2:That leads to my second one, which is workplace culture. I'm calling what we're experiencing right now the people and culture revolution, and I don't believe that it's just happening because, ultra realistically, it always should have. I believe a huge part of what's driving it is the current demographics, in the fact that there are so many jobs available in the marketplace. So all of these things converging coming together create the situation where the employee who we're targeting has so many options and it could be a single thing that happens on the job that triggers somebody to just walk out the door and they don't have to worry about a safety net because there are so many jobs available for them. Within the week they could probably be earning a paycheck.
Speaker 2:So if you're building the right structure internally, people have people to turn to safe, safe spaces they can talk to and I joked with this, this with you before. The safe space isn't the soft seating, the Google couch where you can cry for the day. The safe space is just knowing that there are people on that team that you can trust, who aren't going to abuse what you share with them, who aren't going to share it, who are just going to be there for you to vent sometimes and not hold you responsible for those things that need to come off your chest in that moment, but help you to realign how you're approaching a situation, rethink through your position in a certain thing and when you're providing an environment that helps everybody to get stronger, that's where people want to be. They're not going to go looking elsewhere.
Speaker 2:So, people in culture yeah, the parties are fun. Yeah, having music day is cool. But people in culture is deeper than all of that. Those are check boxes. The meaningful thing happens when you create spaces where people can be themselves, they can be authentic and they can share openly, behind any door that they feel comfortable, what's on their mind and what's concerning them, because that's an opportunity for that leader or that coworker to help them reframe, refocus and be on the path that they want to be on if, for a moment, they're feeling like they're not sure which way to turn, yeah, how do you unwind which?
Speaker 1:what's the what's the sweet way to unwind and relax?
Speaker 2:well, if you asked me, two years ago, it was probably three fingers of bourbon every night. But a part of that mental health journey is also understanding coping mechanisms that aren't necessarily, you know, self-medicating. So, um, I think, I think now the way that I unwind is I'm reinvesting in myself. Um, one of the cool things about the club here is that we have some policies that provide access to the sports amenities to team members, so you'll find me on the tennis courts three, four days a week.
Speaker 2:Um, I participate in some of the member clinics and it's just a break from the grind yeah and it's reinvesting in physical fitness, which is something I neglected, probably for solid 20 years, right when the badge of honor that we're growing out of from starting the workplace in the 90s is how many hours you put in and we're defining passion as the sacrifices we make for the job, not the sacrifices that we make for our families or for ourselves. When you redefine what passion is, I think that helps you to unwind and decompress, and I still enjoy those three fingers every now and then.
Speaker 1:What's your? What's your? What's your? Bourbon of choice?
Speaker 2:Oh, that's a good question Um okay, I grew up yeah, I. So I grew up with my dad, with makers, um, I'm a big Woodford fan and more recently I've I really liked exploring rise um yeah. So, uh, let me see boss hog. Um, yeah, I'm a big fan of, of uh, the new rise that are coming out yeah, so I'll tell you uh, yeah so so bourbon came to me, though, because I decided my my recession um back in 20, 2008, 2010,.
Speaker 2:The way I was going to contribute was I was going to ignore scotch and I was going to drink bourbon. My contribution to the local economy.
Speaker 1:So so this is like a weird side quest, so uh, whenever, this is like a weird side quest, so uh, whenever I fly, my like drink of choice is jack and diet dr pepper love it. I'm just a big big jack jack fan. On american airlines, they, they have jack, also woodford. But to me, like woodford, even like makers like I, to me, like those are just bourbons you don't mix. There's just one that that may be like an ice cube, whatever, maybe like an old-fashioned whatever, that's fine, but to me, woodford, you just don't mix yeah.
Speaker 2:Classic cocktails only.
Speaker 1:Yeah. So I'm flying the one day and I got bumped up to first and I'm sitting there and I was like you know what F it I'm going to do Woodford and Diet Dr Pepper. So I go, can I get a Woodford and Diet Dr Pepper? And the flight attendant female she goes you're going to mix Woodford with soda. And I was like let me explain, I wasn't and I had to like she's like okay, bud.
Speaker 2:Like it was. And then here I am trying to backtrack and I'm like what are the odds?
Speaker 1:that the one time I like convinced myself, like no, it's okay, I'm going to do Woodford in a soda, I get just blasted in front of the whole first class cabin for doing it. It was so funny.
Speaker 2:I died, I died.
Speaker 1:It was uh, what that'll live. That'll live in my head. Rent free for years, um and uh and shameless plug for you and other listeners, if you're a bourbon people, I had on a bourbon steward. He's a bourbon GM, kevin Rice Is it Kentucky Country Club? I think it was, but he's like a big bourbon steward and his club has a great collection. And so we kind of talked on the whole episode. It was just all about bourbons and stuff. It was really cool.
Speaker 2:He could package that and bring it on the road, like people are so excited by those craft bourbons and the cool things that are coming out. Yeah, I'll never forget when whistle pig first hit the market. Dan lavin, great guy, um, he's our former director of facilities. His wife, karen sherman lavin, was the director of golf at Addison Reserve. She's actually somebody else who I would call a mentor. There's some really cool Karen stories out there. But we're gearing up and we realize that Whistlepig is great and that they make this high product called Boss Hog and it's just hit the market but it's not available anywhere. So he calls me one day. He goes, dave, I was driving home. There's a bottle on the shelf, do you want it? I said yeah, get it for me. And he told me the price. And like 10 minutes later I call him back with buyer's remorse and he goes, dan, you know I think I made a mistake. He goes, dave, I couldn't do it to you. $110 to over $650 three weeks later Blew me away.
Speaker 1:Who do they think they are Pappy? No, I went to Kentucky with a buddy of mine in 2019 and ended up being a horrible trip because I ended up having two extruded discs that I didn't know I had. So I'm trying to walk around and I'm like an old man. Even the alcohol is like, even like the, the. The alcohol is not even touching the pain Like one of those. But uh, I was at we were at Buffalo trace and I did like an Instagram story of there. Like they're like just like the one like room I cannot within 10 minutes, my was blowing up people like can you give me a bottle of this? Give me a bottle of that? You get? I'm like yo time out. Like like we don't even talk. Like where'd you come from?
Speaker 1:um, but yeah, no yeah, yeah, it's, uh, it's. It's a fun thing to, you know, enjoy with other people and have like conversations about, and it was. It was actually really cool. My parents were just down there for the kentucky derby whenever it was a few months ago, last month, month before, I don't know but they got me a. They must have went to like a distillery and did like a from the barrel to like the bottle and at the bottom was all like the wood shard stuff, and then I did one of those when I went. I did one of those when I went and I thought what I thought was the alcohol proof of the bottle was the price, and I was like, oh, okay, I thought we were talking about the proof, all right, well, whatever, whatever, bud, yeah, it's a fun story. I still have the bottle because it's the thing was it wasn't even like that great, like it was like okay, like I wish it was a little better, so it's still just like sitting over there.
Speaker 1:I wish I should have finished it, but um, that's great oh man this. This episode has been so sweet. This has been so good. David, thank you so much for coming on. I really appreciate it. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2:I much for coming on. I really appreciate it, thank you, thank you, thank you. I really appreciate you taking the time. It's cool connecting with people that resonate. You're clearly one of those people who believe in what you're doing super passionate. Thanks for sharing this moment, denny.
Speaker 1:Hope you all enjoyed that episode, David, that was absolutely amazing. Thank you so much for coming on and sharing and laughing and making it such a really great time. If you want to learn more about management and motion, what I am hosting and putting on, I am super stoked. Head on over to privateclubradiocom slash mim. Privateclubradiocom slash mim, M-I-M. That's this episode, Until next time. I'm your host, Denny Corby. Catch y'all on the flippity flip.
